It is one of the truths about men that is most contrary to popular opinion shown in books, movies, name it. Far from the universal image of men as ‘stone’ hearts that can’t be touched, the truth is they aren’t that different from women in their hearts. They only do a better job hiding how they feel, mostly because society has made it a requirement for them to do so.
Prefer serious relationships
The popular opinion is that men are only interested in being laid and moving on without a care. Yet any one pushing that position couldn’t be more wrong. Lots of research has shown that even when they’re cheating, men always prefer to do it with someone who gives them the possibility of a long-term stable relationship (even if it’s a side relationship) than someone they get into bed with and then part like wrestlers.
Like women who make the first move
The story has always been that making a move on a guy disrupts the natural order of things and ruins the chase. But several surveys have shown that men want to be pursued. If they were already interested they will feel emboldened to pick up the cue. They like to be asked out, called back after a date, or even invited over to the apartment.
Looks aren’t everything
Most girls feel if they had a little better looks or donned a little better clothes, they’d be luckier in love. And those with these things often think they need nothing more to succeed in the relationship game. But thinking that looks alone will give one success with men is wrong, for beyond looks men consider, of course, manners, intellect, life values, reliability, family background, among other things.
Are OK being ordered around in bed
Research has shown that while the global average age at which women start having sex is 17, most of them don’t start having orgasms till they’re in their twenties, and even then they don’t have the orgasms regularly because they fear to take the initiative in bed. Yet more research has shown that men are OK with women telling them how exactly to give them more pleasure in the bedroom.